Maybe I AM Asking A Lot...

...or too little?

Song of the Day: Whitney Houston - All The Man I Need
Mood: Hopeful

[SIGH] It's not my fault that I'm still single...or is it? Maybe I am too picky? But I mean, I'm picky for the RIGHT reasons, or is there such thing as the right reasons? Ok tell me if I'm being unreasonable, I'm going to list qualities and preferences* I want in a significant other to pursue a healthy, committed relationship. :-)

• Intelligent (A great job will come along with this, hopefully.)
• Positive (I can't have some gloomy guy bringing me baggage and problems!)
• Healthy Spiritual Relationship With a Higher Being (My dad always says one who doesn't fear GOD or at least RESPECTS him is one who FEARS nothing and is capable of doing ANYTHING)
• Family-Oriented (You got to LOVE your family first, even love them BEFORE me at times! If I see you don't respect your mom, then how I know you ain't gone disrespect me?)
• *Athletic (I love football guys, they have the ideal physical body anatomy for me! But as long as your fit and you have muscles it's a GOOD LOOK in my book!)
• Morals (You know the basics, know right from wrong, know how to act, respect yourself and OTHERS)
• Stable (Can I count on you? You have as much right to want me to be stable for you as well! If something in my life goes wrong, can I find comfort through you to help me get back up again?)
• Funny (You got to be able to affect my mood, by putting a smile on my face!)
• *Handsome (At the age I'm at yes, I am vain, so I do appreciate a handsome face, BUT I acknowledge that looks are certainly not EVERYTHING! It's a preference not a must!)
• Understanding/Rational (I hope you're ready to talk especially with me, when I have something to say I say it all! And you have to be able to be at LEAST understand, not neccasarily agree with everything I say, but just respect my opinion as I will yours)

Now tell me, was that unreasonable? Cause if so, then maybe that's my problem! But that's all I really want in a man. That's all I need! I don't know, that's just me. But there's also my list of things I don't want or need from a guy! I guess that should be in my next post! But time for bed, I will leave you with my FUTURE BABY DADDY

-Smiles :-]